purpose – Derrick Kwa

Friday Flip-Through: The Butterfly Hunter

Dec 14, 2007

A common theme (at least an intended common theme) in this blog has always been about pursuing your dreams, and your own passions. To not just settle for what others do, or what society expects, but to chase after what you believe in, and to find your own meaning in life.

And that’s why I love The Butterfly Hunter by Chris Ballard, the subject of today’s Friday Flip-Through. In his book, Chris talks to 10 people who have found their life’s calling, doing really unusual jobs. These are people who have beaten the odds, pursuing a career that few even consider. But it’s a career that they love. They love what they do. More than just “what they do”, their jobs are who they are. It’s a part of them.

10 people. Among them a lady lumberjack, a train geek, a building climber, a NFL kicking coach. 10 very different professions. But one thing in common. They are doing what they do best. They are living their dreams. And most importantly – to me, at least – they are fulfilling their passions.

These 10 people show us the value of doing what you love. It’s the passion for what they do that drive them and keep them going. And that passion is something we would all do well to have.

This book won’t give you a formulaic guide on how to achieve your dream job. What it will do is inspire you in the value of pursuing it. There are people out there living their passions, doing what they love. You can be one of them too.

Yes, it’s a risk. But as these 10 people show, it’s worth the risk. After all, as Chris says, that “is the one thing that can give… life meaning.”

If you like this book, check out my other recommendations at my aStore.

Friday Flip-Through: Rules of the Red Rubber Ball

Dec 7, 2007

I mentioned Kevin Carroll a few months ago, and he was nice enough to send me an autographed copy of his book (completely unexpectedly). He’s an awesome guy, doing amazing things, and spreading a great message in his blog.

But back to his book, Rules of the Red Rubber Ball. It’s a short, simple book. And small, so you can carry it everywhere (and it’s probably a good idea to, so you can share it with others). But it carries an important message. The Red Rubber Ball symbolizes “play”. To quote the book, “It’s any activity, topic or purpose that makes you excited about the day.”

His book is all about finding that purpose. He shares his personal story, which is an inspiring and amazing one. With his story, he inspires us to discover our own passion, and pursue it. And he gives us 7 simple rules of doing so.

I highly recommend it for everyone. It’s a really simple book. But with a really powerful and inspiring message, that I think we all need to hear.

You can buy it from here, for only just over $10. Definitely worth the money.

If you like this book, check out my other recommendations at my aStore.

I wouldn’t be who I am today if not for…

Nov 22, 2007

I’ve been tagged by Chris Brogan for this meme:

“Who had a big influence on you and how did that affect the direction of your life or career?“

We don’t have Thanksgiving here in Singapore, but I think this is an awesome meme, and I’m honored to be included. Thanks Chris – but more on that later. I’m always up for promoting others, and for writing about relationships. So, here’s the people who’ve influenced me, and who have changed my life. If not for you guys, I truly wouldn’t be who I am today.

My mum – Kind of obvious. She’s always been supportive of what I’ve done, even when it’s way out of the norm and really risky. Like quitting school. She’s given me enough space to explore the things I’m interested in, while teaching me good principles for life.

Simin – One of the most (if not the most) important people in my life. Yes, we’ve had disagreements and fights and all. But she’s always been one of the brightest sparks in my life, making me laugh, and just being a great friend. She was the main inspiration behind my temper improving, and basically, I became a better person because of her.

Samantha Wong – She’s always been there for me. Whenever I’ve been down, I could turn to her. She’s someone who I can talk to about anything. The times with her have kept me going in some of my lowest points in life, and ultimately to get out of those points. [edit: for those of you who might know her, no, this does not refer to the Samantha Wong from NUS High.]

Kai Hui – If not for her, I might not even be alive right now. Literally. When I was really at one of my lowest points (even toying with the idea of suicide – I don’t think I would have done it, but it was on my mind), she pulled me out of it.

Grace Huang – One of the first true friends I had, who I could really open up to and count on. She’s been my friend longer than anyone else, and even until now, I know I can count on her. Helps me to keep my head on straight and not get too emotional when stuff happens, and has been a great reminder that some friendships can last the distance, and that there are people who really will always be there.

Lihsia – I’ve blogged about her before a few times, I think. She’s been a huge encouragement and support, and an awesome inspiration. One of the smartest people I have the honor of knowing personally, having her as a friend has helped improved the way I think. When I first started this blog, she was my sounding board for a lot of my ideas, and she helped me sort out my thoughts for my first posts. More than that, on a personal level, she’s someone who I can trust, someone who’s always been willing to listen. A truly great friend.

Joshua Chan – He’s one guy I look up to a lot, and someone who’s influenced the way I think. He was more or less the one who cemented my opinion of the formal education system (that it’s broken). Great with words, always witty and often controversial, he was the first person who got me to start thinking about breaking out of the status quo.

Wei Min – Keyboardist and musician extraordinaire. He was the one who pushed me forward in my keyboard playing, and in my musicianship in general. He was a great encouragement, giving me good tips, and being harsh enough when required. Awesome musician, even more amazing mentor.

Natalie Yeo – My group leader in my first Megalife camp, and a great inspiration ever since. Haven’t really talked much in recent months, but she always helped me keep my eyes on God, no matter the circumstance. Even just seeing the way she lives her life is a great encouragement. She kept me firm in my Christian walk whenever I felt like giving up.

Chris Brogan – I emailed him for suggestions when I first started this blog, and I’m really glad I did. He gave me great advice, and even went on to promote and link to my blog. And he’s continued being a great encouragement – including me in memes like this, inviting me to PodCamp Boston 2 (and helping me in getting there), among others.

And last, but definitely not least….You – Yes, I know this sounds cliche. But without you guys, my awesome readers, this blog wouldn’t have lasted this long. Your encouragement has really kept me going, pushing me to continue posting, and to keep trying to write better posts. Your comments have thoughts keep me on my feet. Your own blogs give me inspiration and ideas to write about. So, thank you, all of you.

What about you? Who are your influences? Feel free to consider yourself tagged by me if you think it’s a worthwhile topic. Or you can share here in the comments. Specifically, I want to tag Sarah Deutsch, Jean Browman, Kabren, Tom O’Leary, Lynn, Esther.

Your Turn: Meaning

Nov 17, 2007

It’s your turn to be heard again. And this weekend, I’ve got a question for you, inspired by a couple of conversations I’ve had recently. It’s a simple question, but with a lot that can be discussed, so I want to know your thoughts.

What are you living for – where/how do you find meaning in life?